A Christian website that gives love advice from a fundamentalist biblical point-of-view gives some disturbing advice, basically saying that spousal rape is okay as long as a husband doesn’t look his wife in the face.
A columnist with BiblicalGenderRoles.com said that men just shouldn’t look their wives in the face if the wife is having sex “begrudgingly.” The columnist, Larry Solomon, also wrote that men “should not tolerate refusal.”
You also need to realize that whether your wife knows it or not she needs to have sex too. If you don’t have sex with your wife at regular intervals, even sometimes when she is not in the mood but consents anyway, you will open yourself to temptation.
Focus your eyes on her body, not her face. Focus on the visual pleasure you receive from looking at her body and physical pleasure you receive from being inside your wife. You want to connect with her physically AND emotionally during sex. But your wife is the one refusing to connect with you emotionally, so you have to concentrate 100% on the physical side.
I know you love your wife, most men love their wives. But sin is ugly. Your beautiful bride’s face becomes ugly during this sinful time that she is grudgingly giving you sex as she grimaces wanting you to “just hurry up and get it over with.”
Christians promoting rape, as long as it’s with your married spouse, is nothing new. Their warped sense of marriage, which equates to ownership, dictates that rape does not exist in marriages. That is wrong.
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